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You look lost at work today, are you OK?

Updated: Nov 8, 2020


There are lots of things that causes discomfort, dissatisfaction, anxiety and unrest at work. The fact is our environment is structured in such a way that we cannot do without experiencing some level of stress on a daily basis. How do you then find true happiness in chaotic work environment to keep you going? Let me share with you what make me happy at work:

1. Knowing my purpose for working is being fulfilled

2. Knowing my team very well. A team member that drains out my energy with negative comments about others lower my motivation. Being surrounded with positive and high achieving team keeps me going and happy

3. Having free time to think and get creative keeps me smiling

4. Opportunity to embark and concentrate on small projects and achieve set goals give me a sense of achievement

5. Having a place I call home, a place I look forward to returning to after work give me inner peace

6. Having good interpersonal relationship with my team gives me opportunity to understand team state of well being and safety

7. Understanding and being aware of possible impact of my personal values and biases on others, prompts me to put myself in others shoes to understand their pain.

Having the understanding that for a leader to succeed there must be followers, I chose to find the missing piece in workplace relationships and seek opportunity to fill these vacuum for true happiness at work.

Note: We cannot live successfully without having relationships. We are meant to connect with others in a positive manner to feel the worth of life, we are meant to enjoy every moment we have because next minute is not promised. So, Why not enjoy the moment you have with me, with her or with him now? I feel more happy knowing you are on my team and reading this today. Together we can be happy and help others find happiness.

This is my story, what is yours?

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oluwafemi jegede
oluwafemi jegede
Nov 16, 2020

Dealing with work place challenges most times cause both physical and emotional problems. But when you work with friendly and none toxic team there will be great productivity and better out put in work place.


Adetifa Bosede
Adetifa Bosede
Nov 08, 2020

Enjoy every moment you have, life is too short not to enjoy every minute.


wale adetifa
wale adetifa
Nov 08, 2020

Thanks for the inspiring write-up.

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